“You have to buy your life.”

Comfort works in hospital administration in London. She is originally from Nigeria.

What is your experience of surgery?

Well it saved my friend’s life. She needed a caesarean section for her second baby, and she survived. But it was very difficult.

Why is that?

The attention she needed wasn’t really there, due to lack of financial resources and unavailability of the right equipment in Government hospitals. She decided to go private but lacked the initial deposit. If you don’t have the money, you don’t get the treatment.

There’s so much pressure on the family. The price they may charge is huge, and of course if she’s pregnant the lady hasn’t been working. It pains you to see this happening – women dying from illnesses that are not supposed to take them. You have to buy your life.

So is it hard to trust in surgical care?

Recently I heard about a young lady who died from an incomplete operation. Not immediately – she went for a surgery to deliver a stillbirth and they left some products behind. She kept going for follow up, kept complaining that she had pains. She wasn’t wealthy, and her life didn’t get enough attention. She was neglected until she developed sepsis, and she died.

From a stillbirth. A tragedy followed by a tragedy. It is really difficult to trust surgical care.

Surgery is that line between life and death, and it’s the common belief that if you go into surgery you’re not likely to come back.

Has your attitude changed since you moved to the U.K.?

Here at least they’ve got the right equipment to look after the patient. I’ve come to realize that there’s nothing inherently dangerous about surgery when you need it and you do it safely.

It’s when you need it and they don’t have the resources for that. My friend and her baby almost wasted away. It’s just a nightmare. You don’t want to talk about it.